Hi, my names Jacob and welcome to The Gentle Fatherhood.
I will make this clear and concise as possible. My journey and alignment does not involve me describing myself for 3 sentences then try and sell you this “special and quick program” and if you’re the first 10 people to do so you get 20% off. No, just no. If we are aligned to work together, then amazing! But, this isn’t about selling as much as possible. It is about you and I valuing each other’s time, embracing each others paths and unlocking your potential as a man and becoming that leader. That guide. That inspiration.
I know what it’s like to be at rock bottom. I am the father to two beautiful children. Ahlia and Luca. And before Ahlia was born nearly 3 years ago, that should’ve been the best time of my life right. Sooo not the case. Around 6 months before Ahlia was born, I was beating myself up. Thinking I couldn’t be a father. I was not able to father my children. I started to conceptualise me being a terrible father and not being able to do it. After these consistent negative thoughts and mindset, the anxiety attacks started to kick in. I called an ambulance 3 seperate time thinking I was having a heart attack. Not knowing anything about mental health and I guess I was naive and didn’t want to know. Straight to the GP I went and got prescribed heavy doses of anti depressants. Three days on these was the worst I have ever experienced. Couldn’t sleep or eat, consistent racing heart and mind and FULLY negative in my own thoughts. In the middle of the third night, I had enough. Straight to the kitchen to get a quick escape to stop the pain. Thankfully, I had one thought. “STOP, don’t do this”.
My point I am trying to make is this. My purpose in life is to guide men to their highest versions and truly embracing their own kingdom. This is evident through every part of my life and my journey so far. I know what it feels like. This isn’t like a psychiatrist where you only have 45 mins every 3 weeks to talk. I am here every single day for you.
And lastly, I am not here to do the work for you.
But my promise is this. I promise to give you all the tools and guidance you will ever need to become the man you truly want to become.
And best believe, our journey will be something special and we will both, together, impact this world on a deep and passionate level.
If this resonates with you brother, reach out and let’s begin this hero’s journey of yours.
Much love ✌🏻