Stop Scrolling Social Media With These 10 Self-Care To-Dos

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I think it’s safe to say that most of us spend our waking hours either looking at a computer or with a smartphone within reach. It’s easy to spend time scrolling social media or watching IGTV simply out of boredom or habit.

Social media is amazing because it gives us a way to stay connected with family and friends and it brings other people into our sphere of influence that we might not otherwise have met. It can also be entertaining and sometimes inspiring.

According to Psychology Today, “More time spent on the most commonly used social networks correlates to higher feelings of loneliness and isolation.”

The website estimates that the average American spends 2 hours per day on social media. That’s a staggering 730 hours per year or one full month! Anything else you’d rather be doing if I gave you a free month every year?

Do this instead of scrolling social media

Here are 10 self-care to-do’s instead of scrolling social media:

  1. Prep a healthy meal – Instead of reaching for a social fix, spend just 20 minutes a day planning meals and snacks for the week, clean fruits and veggies, and package everything up so it’s ready to go.
  2. Feed your brain – When you need a bit of a break from work or just want to chill for 10-20, why not trying listening to a podcast on a subject or reading an article that is going to move your life forward?
  3. Learn a new language – How much do you think you could learn instead of the average 2 hours of scrolling every day?
  4. Meditate – Meditation is good for the soul; it feels good and is calming, soothing, and stress-reducing. Studies have even shown that it actually changes your brain!
  5. Move your body – Do a mini workout, stretch, or do yoga.
  6. Indulge in a creative project – Maybe you want to write, paint, or re-purpose old furniture. Whatever it is, pick it up when you have a bit of spare time.
  7. Fuel your relationships – Friendships require nurturing and a quick phone call goes a long way, especially if you live in different cities.
  8. Give yourself a mini spa treatment – Why not take a little time to treat yourself throughout the day or week?
  9. Ask yourself what you need – How often do you ask yourself what you need? And really listen? Take a moment and listen to yourself.
  10. Take a little “me time” – How about just giving yourself a break? As the saying goes, “We’re human beings, not human doings.”

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Prep a healthy meal

Instead of picking up your phone to waste time scrolling social media, set aside time to plan and prep meals and healthy snacks. Having healthy options available when you are super hungry may just save you from a junk food binge, too!


Feed your brain

Just as it’s important to nourish your body with healthy foods, it’s equally important to nourish your brain with high-quality content.

Try Acast – it is my favorite app for listening to podcasts. Or, catch up on current events on an app like Flipboard, or expand your knowledge with a site like or subscribe to A Guide for Your 20s (if you haven’t already!).

All 4 can be customized to deliver content based on interests and preferences so you have exactly what you want at your fingertips at all times – no more random social feed.


Learn a new language

Have you always wished you could speak Italian or French? Or maybe get to be fluent and conversational in Spanish? Would knowing another language open up job opportunities for you? Some of the most popular language apps are Memrise, LinguaLift, and Duolingo but there are of course more available in the iPhone or Android app stores.



According to The Harvard Gazette, both physical and mental benefits can be seen from a daily meditation practice including reducing irritable bowel syndrome, fibromyalgia, psoriasis, anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

While these aren’t promised and meditation is not a cure, chances are it still helps and you’re going to feel a whole lot better after doing it. Not sure how to meditate on your own? Grab the Headspace app or hit YouTube for thousands of free guided meditations online.


Move your body, do a mini workout, stretch, or do yoga

Louise Hay was famous for saying “If your body doesn’t move your brain thinks it’s dead.” When we don’t move for long periods of time, muscles shorten and get tight. This is when things start to hurt and go wrong.

Still not convinced? News in Health has this to say, “We found that even a low level of physical activity—equivalent to about 10 minutes a day of walking—was associated with a gain of almost 2 years in life expectancy.”


Indulge in a creative project

Almost everyone I know has some kind of creative project that they want to get going. Get started! Chances are it’ll soothe your mind and you’ll actually get something really cool done.


Fuel your friendships and other relationships

How often do you actually catch up with someone on the phone, just for pleasure? This is something we often forget today in the land of texting and busy schedules. I have one girlfriend who makes a point to talk to at least three friends every week. She doesn’t take a long time or make a big deal about it, it’s just about staying connected.


Give yourself a mini spa treatment

Some ideas for a quick pick me up include a 10 minute mud mask on your face, putting a nourishing treatment in your hair, or using a sugar or salt scrub on your hands and feet. No time or place for anything that requires lots of towels and running water? Relax with a gel pack eye mask on and listen to a guided meditation at the same time.


Ask yourself what you need

Most of us are so busy running from task to task that we forget to take the time to do this one simple thing. Instead of scrolling through social and seeing what’s going on with everybody else’s life, sit down with your journal, ask yourself what you need, and then really listen. Write whatever comes to mind with no judgment.


Take a little “me time”

What if you were to take a time out and do nothing at all? Maybe it’s just quiet time to sit and reflect, grab a power nap that you know you really want, read, play with a pet, make some tea, or just do nothing at all.

We all need a little downtime; consider it a gift.

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Hunter Phoenix

Hunter Phoenix

Certified Professional Life Coach

Hunter has an M.A. in Psychology and is a Certified Professional Life Coach. For more than 10 years, she coached clients to find and follow their passion and live their best lives. Hunter has also done youth coaching work with Covenant House, realizing that this is such a challenging and important time in life.
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